I feel behind in life.

Too many of my friends are getting married and having babies. And I'm not even 20 yet! I just saw on Facebook how this girl I know is like... I don't even know how to describe her. She just turned 18, she's about to get married, and when she does, she'll have a 2 year old stepson. Not to mention the fact she already has a four year old, and she's pregnant again. And I have another friend who just got married a few weeks ago, and she has a two and a half year old and is preggers.

I don't even have a boyfriend, let alone a fiance/hubby and multiple babies, lol. It's just weird seeing these people living a 30 year old's life.

Well, some of us are slower than others

And srsly who the FUCK wants a child when they 18? Hella no!

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And srsly who the FUCK wants a child when they 18? Hella no!

*Awkwardly raises hand*

But I think it's more concerning that the girl I know had her first baby when she was thirteen. We only had sex ed in school the year before! Her having a baby at 18 seems responsible compared to her past, lol

Oh my God sluts, stop having babies, there are enough people to last a while!

LOL don't feel behind, Everyone seems to move at a different pace.. I mean it took me a long time to even get my license.. and when you are meant to go through those life changing experiences.. you'll find the guy meant for you

Hell im 34 and Boyd is 39, and we dont want kids no way no how... Hellz no to the H E L L No. lol

Just another mouth to feed and someone else to be responsible for. I'm hardly responsible for myself.....for real. I leave that up to Boyd. lmao

although, I must say, my sisters baby, my niece Chloe.... is just so darn cute. I posted a video of her talking today on my FB. Stacie posted many of her today they were all so cute. One has little ChloMo dancing lol Babies sure are cute, then they grow up and they want your money and want you to buy them things and then they have to have the most expensive clothes cause thats what everyone else has.... and if you have a girl, oh god help you, drama city.

I can say that cause I'm a girl and I know how girls are.

If it were reasonable, I'd totally love to have a kid early on in life. I just know it's not something I can do in good conscience given where I'm at. I still have too much real-life stuff to get used to before I can do that, and I'm not even close to settling down, so having a kid? Not gonna happen, no matter how much I want one.

I'll just wait for my sister-in-law to pop one out and spoil that one for the time being.

OMG, JESS. You TOTALLY just described me.

Lately soo many people my age are getting married and having kids and all. Or atleast engaged. I have a boyfriend but he hasn't even said he loves me yet & we've been together for 8 months.. he seems to fear getting serious cuz his ex hurt him.. but yeah.. I just worry I will never get married. I know a few of my dad's friends who are like, 60 and 40, and STILL single and live alone and it's depressing and my biggest fear in life is dying alone. I've always been a romantic and wanted to get married and have someone fall in love with me more than anything.